No more spontaneity?!? š±šØš± #JMO (4th Post) 5/11-2014
Sometimes guys can be so stupid, waitā¦ not just sometimesā¦How can anyone.. ANYONE??! Say that āgoing out is boringā but will write statuses about going out, āwho wants to go to the club with meā etc.? Or that theyāve gone out SO MUCH in the past that itās just plain boring these days? Sex is ALSO something that theyāve done SO MUCH in the pastā¦ but they just canāt seem to get enough of that oneā¦ HMMM. TELL ME; how does one expect to be the ONLY one in someoneās life if they canāt even do a simple task like going out with that person? Itās not that hard. You know, a lot of relationships tend to go down the drain nowadays SIMPLY because thereās no spontaneity! Sadly, but surely, a lot of people INSTINCTIVELY cheat on their partnersā¦ JUST to do what they COULD HAVE DONE WITH themā- WITHOUT em! (Sad face.) What do you think it is? Cold feet? Maybe a person thinks: āDammit, Iāve been in this relationship for SO LONG (most likely only about 3 months or so š ~giggles)ā¦ and Iām NOW scared of the thought of commitmentā¦. so let me STEP OUT and see what I can do. Hmmm. NEXT comes the part where they attempt to recreate what theyāve ONCE had, in their (current) relationship o.O OR CREATE something that their relationship has NEVER EVEN accomplishedā¦ā¦.. with someone ELSE. But, of course, if that person; happens to, thinks of, or even MENTIONS the consideration of going out with OTHER PEOPLEā¦ā¦. But is ALWAYS up against it when comes to youā¦ then itās OBVIOUSLY something else. But WHAT? Hmmm. This is ALSO coming from the SAME person who CONSTANTLY talks about how boring girls can be, āIām looking for the fun girls who are willing to surf, etc.ā ā¦ ETC. !!! But INSTANTLY becomes this BORING man when heās around YOUā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦ā¦. Catching my drift yet>? (ā¬ Yes, I meant to do that.) Why is that person AFRAID to be āthemselvesā around youā¦ or to simply just have fun in your company? W H A T I S I T? #WhatDoYouThinkItIs? Hmmmā¦ I just think that Iāll never figure out the male gender, Iām not even worried about it. ā -JMO.
