No more spontaneity?!? šŸ˜±šŸ˜ØšŸ˜± #JMO (4th Post) 5/11-2014

Updated: Jan 20, 2020

Sometimes guys can be so stupid, waitā€¦ not just sometimesā€¦How can anyone.. ANYONE??! Say that ā€œgoing out is boringā€ but will write statuses about going out, ā€œwho wants to go to the club with meā€ etc.? Or that theyā€™ve gone out SO MUCH in the past that itā€™s just plain boring these days? Sex is ALSO something that theyā€™ve done SO MUCH in the pastā€¦ but they just canā€™t seem to get enough of that oneā€¦ HMMM. TELL ME; how does one expect to be the ONLY one in someoneā€™s life if they canā€™t even do a simple task like going out with that person? Itā€™s not that hard. You know, a lot of relationships tend to go down the drain nowadays SIMPLY because thereā€™s no spontaneity! Sadly, but surely, a lot of people INSTINCTIVELY cheat on their partnersā€¦ JUST to do what they COULD HAVE DONE WITH themā€”- WITHOUT em! (Sad face.) What do you think it is? Cold feet? Maybe a person thinks: ā€œDammit, Iā€™ve been in this relationship for SO LONG (most likely only about 3 months or so šŸ™Š ~giggles)ā€¦ and Iā€™m NOW scared of the thought of commitmentā€¦. so let me STEP OUT and see what I can do. Hmmm. NEXT comes the part where they attempt to recreate what theyā€™ve ONCE had, in their (current) relationship o.O OR CREATE something that their relationship has NEVER EVEN accomplishedā€¦ā€¦.. with someone ELSE. But, of course, if that person; happens to, thinks of, or even MENTIONS the consideration of going out with OTHER PEOPLEā€¦ā€¦. But is ALWAYS up against it when comes to youā€¦ then itā€™s OBVIOUSLY something else. But WHAT? Hmmm. This is ALSO coming from the SAME person who CONSTANTLY talks about how boring girls can be, ā€œIā€™m looking for the fun girls who are willing to surf, etc.ā€ ā€¦ ETC. !!! But INSTANTLY becomes this BORING man when heā€™s around YOUā€¦ā€¦ā€¦ā€¦ā€¦ā€¦ā€¦ā€¦. Catching my drift yet>? (ā¬… Yes, I meant to do that.) Why is that person AFRAID to be ā€œthemselvesā€ around youā€¦ or to simply just have fun in your company? W H A T I S I T? #WhatDoYouThinkItIs? Hmmmā€¦ I just think that Iā€™ll never figure out the male gender, Iā€™m not even worried about it. āœŒ -JMO.

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